Stop loving people who are looking to be saved. You can't save people, only they can save themselves.
Whenever a person is drowning you are supposed to look around and throw something buoyant to them instead of jumping in after them. Drowning victims can be dangerous. Someone who is panicking will instinctively clutch at anything and use it to push themselves up. This means pushing their rescuer down and potentially harming them.
Just like people in toxic relationships...Read More